Couples Counselling
Your Love Story
This is the story of how you first met, how you first felt about each other, and the relationship that grew into a warm hearth fire from a single spark.
My job as a marriage counsellor is to facilitate the telling of your love story and slow down the re-writes that each partner has created that tend to cause pain, disconnection, and anger.
I create room for each partner to feel acknowledged, seen, and validated while also gently challenging the patterns that are not serving the highest good for their relationship container.
In order for us to be successful together, both partners need to be willing to evaluate and clarify what brought them here.
The most valuable lesson one can learn is to have unabandoned and unhindered love that chooses you fully, that chooses all your imperfections, and tells you that you are beautifully and wonderfully made just the way you are. This kind of love is kind, gentle, and real. You deserve this kind of love.
Rediscover Your Love Story
Each healing journey is very different and unique. We promote healthiness and wholeness for your relationship to thrive.
At Scarlett Psychological Services, we offer counselling services specifically for:
Let’s work together to get to a place in your journey where you get an aha moment and you become the author of your story rather than the co-author.
Our Couples Counselling Approach
Consists of 8 Areas
Communication
Creating a safe place to have conversations.
Financial
Dealing with finances and financial issues.
Emotional Management
Managing your emotions (closed/open). Dealing with avoidance, resistance, shame, anger, sadness, guilt, in a healthy way.
Negotiations
How to navigate through friends and family - still marrying each other’s tribe.
Relationship Stages
The stages and progression of the couple's love story. Now-we-are a couple (name it and claim it).
Intimacy and Sex
Dealing with lies and infidelity. Building trust.
Teamwork
Marriage takes work. Understanding how to work together to create a healthy marriage.
Vision for Marriage
Vision for marriage. Defining non-negotiables, dealing with family relationships.
Reach Out
Pre-Marital Counselling
Help for couples contemplating marriage or long term relationships.
Marriages in Trouble
Help for couples experiencing marital difficulty, brokeness or trauma.
Marriage Maintenance
Help for couples looking to sustain a strong healthy relationship.
Are you ready to get back to your love story?
Contact today to find out if we’d make a good fit!
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