Couples Counselling

All romantic relationships have this in common: a Love Story.

Your Love Story

This is the story of how you first met, how you first felt about each other, and the relationship that grew into a warm hearth fire from a single spark.

My job as a marriage counsellor is to facilitate the telling of your love story and slow down the re-writes that each partner has created that tend to cause pain, disconnection, and anger.

I create room for each partner to feel acknowledged, seen, and validated while also gently challenging the patterns that are not serving the highest good for their relationship container.

In order for us to be successful together, both partners need to be willing to evaluate and clarify what brought them here.

The most valuable lesson one can learn is to have unabandoned and unhindered love that chooses you fully, that chooses all your imperfections, and tells you that you are beautifully and wonderfully made just the way you are. This kind of love is kind, gentle, and real. You deserve this kind of love.

Rediscover Your Love Story

 Each healing journey is very different and unique. We promote healthiness and wholeness for your relationship to thrive.

At Scarlett Psychological Services, we offer counselling services specifically for:

Let’s work together to get to a place in your journey where you get an aha moment and you become the author of your story rather than the co-author.

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Our Couples Counselling Approach
Consists of 8 Areas

communication

Communication​

Creating a safe place to have conversations.


Financial

Financial

Dealing with finances and financial issues.

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Emotional Management

Managing your emotions (closed/open). Dealing with avoidance, resistance, shame, anger, sadness, guilt, in a healthy way.

Negotiations

Negotiations​

How to navigate through friends and family - still marrying each other’s tribe.

Validation

Relationship Stages

The stages and progression of the couple's love story. Now-we-are a couple (name it and claim it).

Intimacy and Sex ​​

Intimacy and Sex ​

Dealing with lies and infidelity. Building trust.

Teamwork

Teamwork​

Marriage takes work. Understanding how to work together to create a healthy marriage.

Vision for marriage​​

Vision for Marriage

Vision for marriage. Defining non-negotiables, dealing with family relationships.

Reach Out

Scarlett Psychological Services provides couples counselling services for:
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Pre-Marital Counselling

Help for couples contemplating marriage or long term relationships.

Marriage in Trouble

Marriages in Trouble

Help for couples experiencing marital difficulty, brokeness or trauma.

Marriage Maintenance​​

Marriage Maintenance​

Help for couples looking to sustain a strong healthy relationship.

“Lack of communication can drive a spike between two people wider than any physical distance.”
Mark W Boyer

Are you ready to get back to your love story?
Contact today to find out if we’d make a good fit!

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